The Girls Next Door

Because of my love of reality tv, I had several friends recommend a show called Girls Next Door. I had heard of it. I have watched it a couple of times never really the whole way through. It just didn't keep my attention. So two nights ago there were a couple on back to back and I decided to give it a try. You know the saying if you're going to do something, do it well or anything worth doing is worth doing well. Whatever I have never been one for nickel and dime phrases. Anyway I decided to commit to this thing and either watch it or never waste a minute more on it again.

So my question is this. What is the deal with Hugh Hefner? Is he gay? Are the girls a cover up? Is he straight and just plain gross? I mean in the show he seems to spend more time with his old married secretary than his "girlfriends". I guess they are like ordered with the one being his primary "love" interest. He touches a lot of butt, makes some comments, but for the most part - he seems like he is playing some weird role or harmless. The kisses on the lips are pecks at best and look pained on both the girls and his part.

I really don't get it. The appeal for the girls or him. And something was said about him and his two prior marriages and a stroke. Is he not all mentally there since the stroke, which was apparently some time ago? Can he even still perform? Someone explain this to me. I am perplexed.